A Account of Surprising Kindness: The Time a University Student Allowed Me to Stay on Her Dorm Ground

During 2006, My journey took me to the Australian capital for an admissions interview for medical school. I figured to book a place to stay upon arrival, yet once I got there, a large conference was taking place and every single backpackers hostels and cheap hotels were completely sold out.

Hailing from Singapore, the idea crossed my mind perhaps I could bed down in the terminal – but soon learned Canberra airport, unlike Singapore’s, closes all night. Unsure of quite what to do and growing worried, I boarded a bus into town and found myself drifting towards the casino, believing I could pass the night in a place that was open 24/7. That wouldn’t put me in the best shape to succeed at an interview the next day, yet, as a broke student, luxury accommodation was impossible.

We could all use more individuals who show such kindness.

I must have looked confused since a young woman spotted me wandering around downtown and asked whether I needed help. I explained my situation and immediately she offered I was welcome to sleep on the floor of her dormitory at the Australian National University – a perfect solution, considering that was where my interview would take place the next morning. She even offered me some free dinner: a leftover sandwiches she had taken home her work shift. I had access to a hot shower and a secure location to rest to sleep.

Looking back, I can appreciate the enormous leap of faith she accepted being a woman letting a man she had only just encountered sleep on her floor. At that time I was in a bubble of male privilege and not even thinking to the potential danger. Today, as a parent, I’m amazed she offered that help – yet very grateful.

Ultimately, I did not attending the Australian National University, and I lost touch with her again, but her act remains etched in my mind her selfless deed of human compassion. It is my wish the universe has returned her act of kindness tenfold. The world needs more people with such compassion.